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Find Fulfillment and Raise Your Family
Let’s make your ambitions front & centre –
even while you care for your kids.
You’re A Whole Woman First, And A Mother Second.
It sounds simple, but shifting your priorities back to yourself means you:
Get clear on what you want out of your career and home life.
Drop the guilt (or at least manage it) so it doesn’t paralyse you.
Build the mindset of a mother in charge of her own path.
Rewire the neural pathways that tell you to sacrifice yourself for others.
Create more time & space in your day-to-day by focussing only on what you want.
We’ve rebranded as Parents Who Think.
We’re debating the best/worst parenting dilemmas in our PWT community & you should join us:
Meet Our Founder, Danusia
As the Founder & CEO of a successful C-suite consultancy and the mother of ten, I know what it takes to build a life that feels good — even when people might give me the side-eye.
Our varying cultures and circumstances mean all of our families live and love differently. But our unwavering desire to create meaningful, rich lives for ourselves & our children is the same for all of us, all of the time.
We’re spoon-fed these heaping piles of bullsh** that life is our oyster — right up until the second we become mothers. Then it’s all about sacrifice, late nights, and coming last on the list, right?
WRONG.
Here at the School for Mothers, we reframe what’s possible so you can have kids and a career, without the guilt or second-guessing. Set yourself free, Mama. There’s so much potential waiting for you on the other side of this cultural malarky.
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IF YOU’RE LOOKING FOR SOMEONE REMARKABLE ON THE TOPIC OF BUSINESS SUCCESS AND FAMILY,
YOU JUST FOUND HER
THE WORK LIFE BALANCE DEBATE IS A CROCK.
TO CREATE CHANGE, WE’VE GOT TO CHANGE THE CONVERSATION.
Whenever Danusia reads an op-ed or hears a speaker or a panel wondering if women can balance work and life, her hackles rise. If this hackneyed question yielded novel insights, then surely after years-and-years of asking it, we’d have fully answered it by now. The archaic “Can Women Have It All?” debate did not provide the answers because it asked the wrong question about the wrong subject – and so, of course, it didn’t generate new cultural insights or inspiring personal breakthroughs.
Danusia pushes back on the notion that mothering automatically stops women’s progress or that parenting and career-building are irreconcilable pursuits. (They’re not, and she has evidence.)
Instead, she outlines a provocative new way to consider mother’s lives, roles, and selves – so that they can invent a new way forward. So that they can modernize motherhood.
She shares stories from her book, “NOISE: A Manifesto Modernising Motherhood”, in which Danusia tears up the old rulebook on how to be a mother, cutting through the cacophony around motherhood that drowns women out, and drags them down.
“Noise is the erosion of our sense of self,” she says. “We forget who we are. Who we want to be. And we forget what is possible because we allow the Noise to dictate it for us”.
Danusia Malina-Derben is an electrifying speaker who speaks on women and work; mothering and self; and what it takes to succeed as an ambitious working mother As Founder & CEO of a C-suite consultancy, Danusia uses brings her academic career-track background in Organizational Behaviour and Development as a ‘toolkit’ advising senior executives and top leaders on how to perform optimally. She brings this same energy and fire into all her speaking events.
She will deliver one of her signature speeches to your audience or develop a bold new talk especially for your event. Danusia is available for keynotes, panels, debates, breakouts and workshops. She’s spoken to intimate groups, appeared on highly-publicised panels with icons and experts, and delivered keynote addresses at conferences and large events.
“Not only is Danusia a powerful, eloquent communicator, she is thought-provoking and moving. Danusia doesn’t mince her words – she delivers an impactful message most delegates remember well after her talk. In fact, one of the most repeated take-aways from our conference (featuring a number of speakers) was the message that Danusia shared with our audience. Danusia is professional, impressive and fab!”
Rina Goldenberg Lynch, Founder of Voice at the Table
Press releases, news, images and videos from School for Mothers
In the news
Interview on the Sarah Gorrell Show – BBC Radio Sussex & Surrey
‘6 Myths of Modern Motherhood & How to Bust Them For Good’ – Op-ed – Psychologies
‘Being a stay-at-home mother is ‘the hardest job of all’ – it’s time we recognised it as a job title’ – The Telegraph
10 New Mum+Children Books To Read This Month – Mumernity
30 Of The Best Book Covers Of The Year (So Far) – Print Mag
‘I have 10 children and a successful career. We need to look at motherhood differently’ – The Telegraph
‘Danusia Malina-Derben’s Noise: a new manifesto for motherhood’ – The Scottish Herald
The 15 Best Parenting Podcasts for Busy Moms and Dads to Follow Right Now – Good Housekeeping
Female Disruptors: How Danusia Malina Derben is shaking up the C-suite industry by reshaping boardrooms into environments where diversity rules – Authority Magazine
Parenting 101: 7 Tips To Share The Load – Sheer Luxe
My Label and Me: I have 10 Children But I Refuse To Let Motherhood Define Me – Metro
‘Don’t be afraid to be strategic’ – Danusia Malina Derben, founder of School For Mothers, says plan and success will follow – Psychologies
LBC Radio
Podcasts to Listen to: School for Mothers Podcast Daily Express
Wonderful Women Interview – Honest Mum
Inspirational Woman Interview – We Are The City
We Met at The AllBright – AllBright Magazine
Danusia Malina-Derben discusses her podcast ‘School for Mothers’ – Newstalk Radio
Podcasts & Video Interviews
How Does Mother Of 10 Danusia Malina-Derben Balance Career And Family? – Sunday Times’ Postcards From Midlife with Lorraine Candy & Trish Halpin
NOISE: A Manifesto Modernising Motherhood with Danusia Malina- Derben – Another Door Podcast
The Power of Embracing Change – Career Change Maker Podcast
Women’s Special: Danusia Malina-Derben – Enrich TV with Darya Haitoglou
Motherhood, Leadership & Sausage Dogs – The Outrageous Impact Show
Clowning Around with… Motherhood – Clowning Around Podcast
Take Danusia Malina-Derben’s awesome price ladder challenge RIGHT NOW. Be brave and work out what you want – Sparkle & Thrive, The Tech Pixies Podcast
Dismantling Barriers & Filtering Out The Noise – The Everyday Adventure Podcast
Work Life Balance – It’s Somewhere in the Bottom of my Handbag Podcast
Business Seduction: Sex Might Sell But Intimacy Wins – Industry Angel Podcast
Danusia Malina-Derben: Identity and Noise – Hey It Gets Better Podcast
Schooled in Motherhood: Kicking in Boardrooms and Waking Up the World – The Thriving In Chaos Project with Paulette Rigo
The secret to raising 10 children and smashing your business with Danusia Malina-Derben – MPower Podcast for Mums In Business
How to make podcasts that matter, with Danusia Malina-Derben – Psychologies Magazine TV
UK Government Reports
Unequal impact: Coronavirus (Covid-19) and the impact on people with protected characteristics – Women and Equalities Committee, UK Parliament
The School for Mothers Special Report on Covid-19
Read the full Report & Infographic (based on the School For Mothers Research collected for the Women and Equalities Committee)
